A day short of my 26th birthday... Many years ago when i thought about my life I thought that this would be the year I'd get married. (imp.: pls note- many years ago). Now I am pretty less sure of when.. never really even been close to having a girlfriend and arranged marriage is one of the scariest things :)
I never would have imagined 2 years in US- I was amongst the very few guys who did not even give GRE from our engineering class.. A guy who'd hop back home to Bombay from Pune at every chance would stay an year away from his family and then another..
Once the shiest of guys, would party almost every weekend.. would have a big friend circle.
When I look back.. so much has changed. People have changed, relations have. some people close have drifted apart, many new friends have come and gone and more have come. Change is the very essence of life. To think if it was preplanned would be inanity. To think all was a coincidence would be incredible. Maybe its about the situations which are preplanned and the choices that you make which dictate your life... hence the balance.. and I look back at the choices I made then i don't regret much. Maybe I'd wait for better situations. Coz I expect more out of myslelf. Maybe I have to create situations.. lots of maybies.. think I'm going insane.. will wind up this post.